I think Tom needs to let out his feelings in a strong and passionate way. From the sounds of his letter, he’s bottling up some pretty fierce emotions. I hope this girl matches his level of intensity! Most important thing of all is finding that thing the two have in common and capitalizing on it. I want to know why Tom is falling so hard for her? Is it just that she’s beautiful? If so, I’m not sure he’ll get very far. Find the things you both really like and use that as a way to let let her know you’re serious about her. The video message should incorporate something of this nature. Some kind of common ground, something beyond just physical attraction so that Tom’s video to his crush can be more revealing and mean something more than just “I think you’re pretty.”